Fine As Wine

I like my men like I like my wine: aged, sweet, and moderately priced. I'm a sucker lately for the 35 and up men. Or maybe its because they like me. I think I've got all the features of a woman that a real man can appreciate (sorry I never understood the women with 12 year old bodies gettin any kinda play.) Maybe it is because I'm a bigger woman the older men like me but that's got nothing to really do with anything I have come to find out. Hands down I believe I'm beautiful just the way I am after years of forcing my body to be what it's just not. It took a long time and I'm finally there and I know for a fact that I can take your man if I wanted to lol. It's a funny thing to know someone for a while who I know never would give me the time of day and then to see that look on his face when I he realizes that I'm kinda hot is the greatest. That's why I never settle and I shake off dudes I know are approaching me because they think I need love like that. I gets love--BALLLLEEEEE DAT and I want someone who thinks I'm beautiful just the way I am and can appreciate the fact that I'm smart as hell and like the Beyonce says--I can definately "upgrade" him. But that's a whole other blog.

There's something about being able to have a conversation with someone that's appealing to me. I don't know if getting to know someone is a dying art but that's how I determine if a guy is worth my time or not. Playing the love game with someone is irrelevant to whether or not I can be with that person (now if we have to talk about how good it is, that's a different story.) That may sound crude but it's the truth. We all have needs. I'm attracted to the same things phyisically in any man. But I refuse to feel like I'm too good to be with any dude. "I'm known to walk alone but I'm alone for a reason." Ya'll know I used to hate on Beyonce, right? She's that chick for real though lol

In conclusion--just between us girls--does it seem like younger men are loosing the idea of "the chase?" You know, having to put in a little work before they get the goodies we all know they want? I feel like the value of a woman has decreased dramatically and maybe that has to do with the fact that the music we listen to tends to sell P as a product but back in the day (from what I hear) guys actually tried to make you like them before making "those" kinda moves. What I tend to get from older men is a little more attention in that area. Granted its not a huge improvement (don't make me elaborate...my recents will be ashamed) but the idea that I gave my number out so I can just get to know him isn't a big shocker to an older man. Maybe I'm lucky cause I get the one's with no kids OR ex wives so I don't know the true pain of being over a decade younger than the man I'm dating. But there's nothing like being with a man I wouldn't mind submitting to (yeah I said submitting--there can't be two bosses.) Today's guys need to take a lesson from the oldshchool. I want someone to make me feel like a woman should feel: treasured, respected, and beautiful. Can a girl get a little ROMANCE?

Stay beautiful inside and out!