Calm down fellas. It's not what you think. But this blog is for you and i'm sure my ladies can relate and agree. This blog is for all the married and booed up men that can't seem to keep their hands out of the cookie jar. It's a disgusting and annoying and immature habit that you guys have and you need to quit. Seriously. It's 2009, you don't have to be with that girl if you really don't want to be. If she's paying your bills or making life easier for you to the point where you don't wanna leave then the least she deserves from you is your loyalty you bastard.
Now I'm very open about the fact that I rather have a friend with benefits if not for any other reason than the fact that I am a commitment-phobe as I am young and ambitious and grew up with traditional Christian values of what a woman's role is in a relationship. That's why when I'm not exactly your girlfriend I still feel free and open to pursue my dreams and neglect helping you with yours. So when I ask you if you have a girlfriend or if you are married and you tell me no that's what I expect to be true. Trust me, I'm not trying to spring commitment on you as a surprise but more I'd rather build a friendship and keep my chances for disease low. We can talk and that's just fine for me. AS LONG AS YOUR'RE SINGLE.
I become a hoe when YOU ARE NOT SINGLE! When you actually have a girlfriend and/or a wife then you have made me a hoe. And I have no choice in the matter. Because when your woman finds out, that's how you're gonna treat me and that's just how shit goes. Cause if this situation goes down with one of my girls there ain't no way in the world the other girl isn't automatically the hoe. Now I am too good to be anyone's jumpoff. And I'm sure as hell not gonna bring that kinda karma into my life. It's one thing for a girl to know that you're in a relationship and not care but when I tell you that I care and the possibility of us eventually being together is all my mother needs to be happy then please please please please please don't act suprised when I cut your ass off after I find out that you aren't single. That's a level of skeeze I'm not going to approach for anything.
In conclusion--just between us ladies--we shouldn't settle for second best with any guy. It's never worth it. Cause when you have to think about the fact that your calls are ignored so hers can be taken, that she's watching all the movies you're hoping to see with him, that he actually tells her HE LOVES HER, and that she can make plans with him whenever she wants without any restrictions--why would you knowingly do that to yourself? We let men get away with so much! Listen to Latoya Luckett--"No more settling for less" You better cop that single if you have an issue with this and say "I DON'T WANT IT ANYMORE!"
Stay beautiful inside and out!
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