Study Shows Men are USELESS

A friend of mine posted an article on Fabebook called Women Are Overtaking Men in the U.S. from Sphere.com. It definately made me lqtm (laugh quietly to myself--I'm tryna get this to catch on) since I've been thinking this for years now. I know I sound like I'm contradicting myself when I say I'm not looking for a man but I can't wait to get married. But the reason I say I'm not looking for a man is because I truly don't need one for ANYTHING if I need to be bluntly honest. And I do mean ANYTHING if you can pick up what I'm putting down lol. I know the kind of man that I want to marry and that I will marry and it will be truly a miracle if we ever find each other. I want someone who is educated, motivated to succeed, and who won't tie me down and prohibit me from pursuing my simple plan of world domination. That's all.

When I read this I was happy that research was there to back up my feministic viewpoint.

 "Women really have become the dominant gender," said Guy Garcia, author of "The Decline of Men." "What concerns me is that guys are rapidly falling behind. Women are becoming better educated than men, earning more than men, and, generally speaking, not needing men at all. Meanwhile, as a group, men are losing their way."

I know I always talk to you ladies, but if there are any men out there that can raise their hand and say this is not true, please do so. Because from where I sit in the city of Orlando, there really is no debating on this this. Especially among people of color. It can find 20 females to every one male who has a undergraduate degree or higher. And I think that knowing how much better educated I am than my male counterparts and knowing how truly independent I am makes me a harder catch. I can't take any man seriously who is doing worse off than I am. Especially if he's older than me.

In conclusion--just between us girls--I really and truly feel I will be single for years to come. I refuse to settle just to be with someone and past men I have dated have allowed me to wear the pants financially and it's now a complete turn off. Am I crazy for feeling like I'm too good to be with a guy who hasn't taken the time to invest in himself through school or entreprenuership? Is that really shallow? I don't think so. I'm tryna be a part of relationship that rivals Jay and Beyonce, Swizz and A.Keys, or Barack and Michelle. I want to be a part of something that's ever changing, growing and making a difference. Whether it is just me ending up like Kris Kardashian and Bruce Jenner, I want to be a part of a loving committed situation where my husband is just as successful as me if not better. I say if he can't at least do for me what I am doing for myself then that guy is truly USELESS.

Stay beautiful inside and out!

Twitter is taking over my life!

Of all the things I could choose to blog about first--I chose Twitter. What is Twitter you may ask? If you don't know what Twitter is and you are between the ages of 18 and 34 you definately aren't as hip as you think you are. Its this simple online update thingy that Myspace and Facebook couldn't seem to make cool enough. So this guy decides to run with it. Basically you can tell anyone who thinks you're worth following (sorry for the jargon but it's your fault if you really need this explanation) what exactly you are doing, what you are planning to do, what you are thinking at the moment, what cool things people you are following are doing, and even show pictures and videos and bubbletweets--so much fun! It's friggin ADDICTING--and i'm not even a celebrity lol.

I follow my favorite celebs like the Kardashians and Swizz Beatz to pretty much just be all up in their business. That's it. I admit it--that's why I love Twitter. I mean it's a long hard road to getting a respectable amount of followers so it's worth having people up in your business but if you're a celeb--its nothing. So unfair. I have been on Twitter for almost a month (@DivaGlamFam if you wanted to know) and I'm barely pushing 100 followers. Hopefully that will change so I can get some responses to my questions (again, you wouldn't understand if you didn't have an account.)

Now on to what I HATE. Well it's a love/hate thing. I have UberTwitter on my Blackberry and it really is so convenient. I wasn't able to watch the Magic beat the Celtics tonight but I felt like I was there because I had constant updates from people I'm following. I can not only send my updates but I can retweet which is something I haven't figured out how to do on my laptop yet. I can see pictures instantly and I also get a highlighted list of tweets mentioning @DivaGlamFam (me people.) But I absolutely HATE the fact that everytime I get an update my phone is alerted. Its like they set it to default and update directly. Someone tell me how to make it stop! I can't even have my phone on anything but vibrate anymore and I am missing important calls and texts because I hate rushing to the phone and it's just Twitter letting me know that @djprostyle is on patron for the night.

If you don't have a Twitter account, you can't understand the importance of instantly reaching an audience. I can tell who knows how to use Twitter. The Kardashian sisters are a good example: always promoting themselves without seeming like they are. They invite people to come see them at events or tune in to see them on TV because they know their followers love them. And that love translates to dollars. Women after my own heart.

In closing--between us girls--get "Twit it!" The newer Twitter is, the easier it is to reach out to people. It's like Myspace and Facebook. It will get old and when that happens everyone will have a Twitter account. Your message will get lost in the shuffle. Promote your business or talent now while the iron is hot. Be bold and get ahead of the curve. Besides it's free and takes nothing but a picture and a headline. You may learn some interesting things about your favorite celeb or you may turn into a celeb. Stranger things have happened...

Stay beautiful inside and out!